Thank you all for your support regarding my impending divorce. The most difficult decision is to figure out how long to let him stay here. I am not sure he has anywhere to go. I hope one of his family members will take him in, but I am not so sure. He has alienated most of them this past year. I have decided to start the divorce process either way. I am going to work on the paperwork and file it later this month with some of my extra money from subbing. It's over $400 for a simplified divorce (no lawyers or assets to split).
I need to ensure we are divorced before he can collect on my social security. I also want my life insurance beneficiaries to be my kids. I have him as the beneficiary and was told since he is my spouse, he would have to sign off for me to leave it to anyone else.
Other than not knowing when to ask him to leave, I am okay. I came to terms with this months ago. Of course, I don't know if I will have a more difficult time when he is actually gone. I have known him almost 17 years. I truly hope he will be amicable. I really do wish him the best. I hope he gets help and can find peace and happiness down the road.
Thank you for your support
October 9th, 2016 at 02:29 pm
October 9th, 2016 at 03:23 pm 1476026581
Perhaps once your ex-to-be realizes that he has to take responsibility for himself, he'll also seek help for his illness. Regardless, be sure to continue taking care of yourself.
October 9th, 2016 at 03:25 pm 1476026745
Sorry to only offer questions, I think the answers need to come from professionals so that he likewise gets treatment which could result in the bet possible outcome. Sending prayers and best wishes in this so difficult situation.
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